"It’s dark because you are trying too hard. Lightly child, lightly. Learn to do everything lightly. Yes, feel lightly even though you’re feeling deeply. Just lightly let things happen and lightly cope with them. So throw away your baggage and go forward. There are quicksands all about you, sucking at your feet, trying to suck you down into fear and self-pity and despair. That’s why you must walk so lightly. Lightly my darling..."
— Aldous Huxley (Island).

I find good advice in the quote above and see where it might be time to maybe lighten things up a bit. Enjoy more of life without wading through the questions every action and reaction may bring about. Lightly I tell myself over and over, hoping it just might sink in.